Be Guided!
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Here are my friends, with over 25 years of friendship recently on a trip I made to Toronto, Canada! We don’t talk every day, value & respect stand out!
You know them!
Many years ago; Growing up, in the absence of social media, we were Lucky … & lost out in some good things too.
This article will focus on the things we actually were lucky with.—
If we had arguments, disagreements, and nuances - there would have been evidence of them all on social media today.
If we had embarrassing boyfriends, misleading friendships, bad behaviors, you could have been able to trace them today.
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Imagine all the really ‘bad’ things that happened to so many people around you ‘ publicly’, everything would have been on Social media ( SM ) today.
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The 11-year-old boy who stole a chicken and is a medical doctor in London today would have had a video of him today on SM.
The little girl who had a miscarriage while in secondary school and the whole school watched it displayed, who is a successful neurosurgeon today would have had that miscarriage video on SM.
The many altercations in school days, the quarrels between a parent, the day you insulted that teacher, the child you abandoned out of fear,
the many women you raped,
or were raped,
the very many incidents wrapped up in ‘growing up in Africa’ that YOU YOU
YOU had to deal with or be dealt with!
Imagine that it was all displayed on SM at that time and anyone can FIND FIND FIND them today! Most of us(you) would NOT have gone on to BECOME the greatness that we(you) REPRESENT Today!
Have you thought about that?
Do you think about these things?
Just imagine; if the things you did, your sisters, your brothers, and your best friends did in secret are all displayed in today's social media?
Do you EVER think about these things?
Are you GROWN UP Yet? Are you ready to be a grown-up? Have you developed yourself yet?
Do you know that if you have 5 confident friends, you become number 6th?
Do you know that if you got 5 Dumb friends, you become the 6th?
To Be continued … Next Post!
To more than I can be!
©️ Collette Orji #CocoWonder
