Actress and Founder of Purple Campaign - “It’s okay to change your YES to a NO. YES's aren’t permanent. They’re something we choose again and again, each and every day...

“It’s okay to change your YES to a NO. YES's aren’t permanent. They’re something we choose again and again, each and every day. Something we have the right to recall and reconsider as soon as saying YES no longer feels conducive to our well being and happiness. It doesn’t matter whether you said YES to a job, a date, a relationship, sex, a favor to a friend, a social endeavor, or a vow of silence, you don’t ever have to commit to something that forces you to compromise who you are and what feels right; especially if it’s something you agreed to under pressure, intimidation, or force. 

Changing your YES to a NO might make people angry. It might hurt their feelings, cause them to see you as a flake, and result in lost connections. But if saying NO means staying true to yourself, honoring your feelings, and making self-care a priority, it’s worth it. You are worth it. Don’t let anyone convince you otherwise” AND FOR THIS SIMPLE REASON JUST LIKE LAST I CHOOSE TO CELEBRATE 16YEARS, THIS YEAR I MIGHT GO UP OR DOWN cos it's all about ME...COUNTING DOWN TO MY NEW AGE .

#NomeansNoandYesMeansYes...

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